Congrats Snowcapt! Life is too short to spent it with a miserable woman. Although no kids, my first divorce was the hardest, but best decision I've ever had to make. I actually kept a "feelings" calendar with
every day she bitched and started fights and
for non-fight days. After three months (and in the middle of a fight), I showed her the calendar ... which really got her going. Kinda puts it into perspective when you see only one good day a month at best and decided I didn't want to live a life with maybe a dozen fight-free days a year. Life has been great ever since I cut that cancerous negativity out of my life. Didn't think I would ever marry again, but now have a wonderful wife of 7 years, one 4yr old boy and a second boy on the way, and every day is a
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